So sweet! I have always felt fat, but by America's standards, I am very underweight. The s** is fantastic. Lucky man . 543 lbs and growing, and loving every new pound. If she likes to snack, have lots of them around. But more skinny than fat. In the past few months my boyfriend gained weigh, a feeeeew kilos actually. The fatter he gets, the less you have to convince yourself. Awww, does someone need their bloated belly rubbed? The s** is amazing for us both. What you must avoid is confessing that you're losing your attraction to him. If she is into it, and you ask, and shes honest with you, it could open up a whole new phase of your relationship that you both could mutually indulge in and enjoy, and it wouldnt have to be this hush-hush secret anymore. my GF lost 100lb from gastric bypass I was against her doing it. Me too. Ensure that your husband has at least a 10% of caloric surplus, which means he should take in more calories than what he burns in a day, which will lead to more muscle mass and fat gain. I like my girlfriend's weight gain. How much weight has he gained? Once you have taken care of his diet, make sure your husband engages in regular strength training like lifting heavy weights to increase his muscle growth and Lean Body Mass because that will eventually increase the Basal Metabolic Rate or BMR. I'd been broken up with my on-and-off boyfriend of five years for about three months when I agreed to meet him for dinner. With her encouragement, and I ADORE HER FAT, I foresee a large amount of belly rubs in my future both getting and giving. She might be happy if you tell her you dont care if shes skinny. than similar people who are thin. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd. Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. We dont need to unite here - were already everywhere! and "You're shrinking down there!" Speeding toward sex. He said about 40-50 pounds heavier. My wife is very fat with big bum and belly and I love it . I'm 15, 5'5" and about 120-125 pounds and I'm a size 0-2. :). Trying to fatten up my gastric GF with booze - it helps. Sounds like someone has never been with a man of substance.. Once you have the percentage, compare it with the recommended percentage of body fats (10%-20% for healthy men, 18%-28% for women), and if it is more than these ranges (though he has a normal weight), your husband is skinny fat. Lucky man. He will grow for you. skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. I am fat. Im sorry for him and for you (and for me and for everyone else not involved) that weight is such a thorny, painful, loaded topic. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. He would probably get turned on . "I like my girlfriend's weight gain.". He has an actual ass. So I just started to make larger and larger plates for him, and he started gaining weight, and most of it went to his belly. (the more dangerous of the two) stored in the internal organs and is thus really hard to notice. Totally this. My wife was 170 and 5'6" when we met 20 years ago and she now weighs 530 pounds and I just love it and can't keep my hands off of all her fat. Better s**, less arrogant and more relaxed.Just gotta keep having s** with them and keep giving them good food for an easy life. Just something I never told anyone. Weve been together three years. On top of that, healthiness is not better than unhealthiness. I couldn't believe that was the guy I was about to sleep with. I know a person my height and size isn't the ideal man for many women, but I'm not giving up hopeor ice cream. It turns me on to think that I have doubled his weight. 65 pounds in 24 months is a lot. Dunno, half and half I guess. The moobs were first. Morris McLennan as a kid. My husband loves me being fat am 400lbs and he loves my body and tell me how sexy I look . When I met him he weighed 185-190 and looked sooo good. That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). Shell offer seconds or keep sweets around knowing I cant help myself. Make a podcast, YouTube or TikTok videos about our confessions and we'll promote your content, free! I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. Huge sagging belly and t***. She loves to tease me with saying I think I need to gain a few 100 pounds and it's an honest statement because she says please feed me some more. From hair trends to relationship advice, our daily newsletter has everything you need to sound like a person whos on TikTok, even if you arent. Who a I to take that away from him . It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. It's not going as well as planned and there are arguments and tantrums everyday. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. How have your friends and family reacted? By this time she was around 370 and proceeded to gain another 100lbs despite the fact that her OBGYN put her on a pretty strict diet which she obviously not follow. To my surprise she was turned on by the thought of gaining and not dieting. A: Let me begin with the easiest of your questions: This does not mean you never loved him. Fast forward a year and Ive gained about 20 pounds, and he loves it. But Danny, 46, is no longer the lean, dark, handsome type she fell for. Her sweet tooth is out of control, and I make sure it stays that way by having a constant supply of her favorites on hand at all times. She is still breast feeding our youngest and needs to be pumped on a daily basis and since she is so huge, she has difficulty doing it herself. We are experimenting with feeding which I like. Enjoy what you have! If you feel unhappy or unhealthy when you gain weight, don't gain weight. It always becomes insanely Unhealthy. The first time I saw him shirtless, my jaw dropped. The only things that fat bodies are guaranteed are: 1. having to wear bigger clothing, 2. being heavier than a thin person their size and 3. dealing with a bunch of bullshit from fatphobes. Ive dated thin and fat, and there are good things about both. Id also love for you to go to therapy, but I know thats a longer process. That said, unless they ask, you should not be sharing your negative opinion about any aspect of your partners physical appearance. All rights reserved. My wife has encouraged me to blimp up but no belly rubs for me yet. she stood there looking in the mirror for a minute or 2, then declared, I'm gaining the weight back. When we were dating she was 180 or 190, and she's only 5'6". Well, I really, really porked cuz I gains 88 pounds. Its fun to have great food and enjoy moments with delicious food! Almost 270 here, with massive gut which is a fat shaming target. How much ice cream can you eat at one sitting? Is your husband or boyfriend skinny or fat? Plus, people have divorced for far, far less. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. I put weighed on for him . If you cook, start making more caloric meals--lots of carbs and fat. Her thighs had gotten skinny, from being very fat before, and the skin was all wrinkly and flabby. He loves to play with her belly rolls. I'm retired! She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. She now weighs 215 pounds and shes getting fatter bu the week. In that time I've put on some weight, around 40 pounds, but I've made sure my husband got really fat. It's only bigger and rounder for the future! My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. Are they teased and called names? Startle him into a state of frenzy with, "Shit, babe! I consider the two of us extremely lucky guys. am going with it. Can you go on more date nights? I love food, especially chocolate. God it's fun when your wife gets fat! A girl who loves big boys finally finds one who likes to eat. She is easiky twice the weight of her closest chubby classmate. Why fight it? She thinks she likes it like that. You can be disappointed and angry and impatient and sad about not feeling horny for your partner, for how your sex life is going, for what your relationship is right now. Rarely does it abruptly drop off a cliff and nosedive, sinking deeper and deeper into a nadir of nonsexiness. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. But that belly yuck. We never really discussed it but he just lets it be and the s** is getting better and better the heavier I get (he loves me on top). Last year she had gastric bypass. Her goal is now to continue gaining to 400! Make a podcast, YouTube or TikTok videos about our confessions and we'll promote your content, free! With that being said. Nothing like a big hanging fat bag. I think it is kind of interesting that my oldest who is 5. weighs almost as much as your 10 year old. No one is encouraging me/I don't want to become fat. My wife says I look 8 months pregnant, loland I've got a new pair of b****. No I take partial responsibility. I want to tell him, confess how I love his body, and I don't want him to starve himself. 1,500 calories in fatty fast food is much different than 1500 calories of lean protein and vegetables. It wasn't until a year after we started dating was when she said she had it with diets and would I still be interested if she put on more weight. Fatten him up and race him to 300. I wish and Im fairly certain youd agree that weight didnt have such a cultural significance placed on it. Haha that's adorable. She gave birth to our second at about 475lbs. I love grabbing a handful of flesh when we've having sex, and seeing that big round hairy mountain when I look up at him when I'm giving him a BJ. It made me skinny, pretty, and fake. I'm really turned off by overweight guys and just the feeling of his belly makes me cringe. My wife is almost 600lbs, her sister is easily over 400 and her mom is the same as well. 9. Outstanding! Now, she says, his 6-ft.-1-inch frame is "more than a little fleshy and mushy" and the weight . Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I used to suffer from anorexia about 10 years ago. Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. Show up, love him, give yourself a break, forgive yourself, keep loving him. She never verbally discussed it with me but the bigger I kept getting the lovemaking and bigger fattening meals just kept coming. He is supportive, intelligent, has a great sense of humor this list goes on and on. I have stuff around the apartment, like sodas and sugary juices and snacks I know he'll enjoy. Oh, the babys doing good, and I guess a bit chubby. In comparison to what he looked like before (~150 pounds on that frame) of course he looks fat, but now he seems average like any guy his height. If his face stays handsome and his body blows up like a balloon but he can still f--k, no problem. I would think she would want me to diet, but she is the one who keeps bringing home my favorite ice cream - Ben and Jerry's Cannoli, and pound cake, omg I could live on that! I know it's not good for you but I am having fun with it and figure I can lose if any health problems show up. But hes far less active than he used to be and hes grown out of all his clothes while Ive managed to stay in pretty good shape. I just want to tell him, because it's better for his health and his self esteem, but I don't know how to start the conversation or if I should tell him. What kinds of things are they saying? Health is not moral. !Anita G. I gained 77 pounds in the pandemic, all of it belly, and all of it flab, like my wife says "You're almost like a woman now." but I'm not sure I want to anymore. I am one too. I met my hubby at gym. Nobody f****** asked you. How much did you weigh when you got married? All the best to you and your beauitful, round woman. When I met my bf, I was 24, slightly overweight, and had all the curves in the right places. Get loads of people loving the pics I share of her. I realized I started finding this to be very attractive because now I get obsessed about what he eats. She currently weighed in last week at 417. My favorite part is how now (when I'm fully stuffed), my belly blocks her head from view when she's going down on me. He loves to look after me . 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XB, Taking a break or withdrawing from your course, MPhil Economics/Economic Research Cambridge 2023, Official UCL 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Thread. Oh I know why BECAUSE THERE AREN'T ANY. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! DID SOMEONE'S PARROT GET OUT? Hes always trying to get me touching his belly or squeezing it. Its not you can be , its you are unhealthy when you are fat. He certainly looks very well fed, a 360 pound man with a magnificent beachball belly that I love to rub. Hes up nearing 90lbs from when we got married. He likes to lay next to me facing me and push our bellys together. Or should I just let go and let the inner fatty out/let the seems pop? An my baby girl, she gonna be nice an plump too! A year later, she's preggo again, and once again, pigged out, this time gaining 90 pounds. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is sexy. skinny and exercise every day but still not physically fit, Rejected from uni and feeling kind of down. Im the same way. I am successful, greedy, indulgent, fatter than ever, and answer to piggy. Im a big fat pig and getting fatter! I know my obsession is getting into dangerous territory when I start getting mad. I just kept saying how lovely and sexy she looked and the more I'd say more she seemed to gain she has a sweet tooth and likes takeaway, My wife is a bbw 350 pounds love her rolls of fat that hang over her fat p**** and huge saggy t*** 44Ddd, My wife lisa is the same way 365 pounds she has fat rolls that hang over fat hairy p**** she also has huge saggy 44 DD t*** with big pink nipples, Any tips on getting my wife fatter? Is it hopeless? Nice. By subscribing to this BDG newsletter, you agree to our. Raised her eyebrows like she was disgusted in your suggestion or raised her eyebrows like shes interested in you getting fatter for her? This one is different. If she is not okay with that then drop her like a hot potato. Ugh, I feel dirty and guilty for enjoying it so much and doing sneaky things to encourage him to consume more. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . Cookie Notice Thats great!). If we run we can make it in time!". The way shes been over serving me over the holidays, I definitely got that hint! Haha I assume the censored comment was "b-o-o-b-s." I don't know why but i think it's funny when guys get fat and they grow a pair, sorry LOL. He fought that belly for a while because most of his family is overweight. The content published on this blog is for informational purposes only. More often, it waxes and wanes. It's a total 180, and I can't fully grasp this new attraction I have. As a husband with a wife in almost the exact same boat, I would just love to see her let go and embrace being a huge fatty. I have always dreamed of growing a big, round, huge belly my whole life. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated? Haha! He just keeps eating. I wouldnt mind a chubby hubby! He is so beautifully big bellied now, that it's affecting his abilities to do certain s ex positions, which I find so hot. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. If all goes to plan, he'll run the whole way there. Shes definitely into me - been married 20 years! My husband loves me and says how sexy I look and can't take his hands off me. The good news about this is that even though youre less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to him to grow again. Safe words are another great solution. Tell him you want him bigger. Honestly, I didnt notice it before. When I graduated from high school I was 135 pounds. Do not bring up his weight. Maybe seeing my words will help me assess the situation. He says the s** is beyond awesome. Otherwise, if its a preference about their hair being another color or length, if its whether they look better with makeup on, if its about what they do with their pubes, whether they get plastic surgery, whiten their teeth, or dress like its 1987, I implore everyone to keep their negative thoughts to themselves. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. She agreed to gain weight when we met and today she wants to add more pounds for me. So please, help me. There are some advantages to living life with a little extra weight. She loves stuffing her face with food . With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. Both mom and baby came through with flying colors. I tell him he's gorgeous and perfect. 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